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Mentoring

The Goal Is Replacement.

The best thing you can do for someone you mentor is make them better than you at the thing you're teaching. If that scares you, mentoring isn't the problem.

Why It Matters

Every senior person who retires, leaves, or gets promoted without having invested in the people behind them leaves a crater. Knowledge walks out the door. Context evaporates. The team spends six months rebuilding what could've been transferred in six conversations.

Mentoring is how you leave something behind that's more valuable than your own career.

How to Do It

  • Pick people with hunger, not just talent. Skills are teachable. Drive isn't.
  • Share the real story. Not the sanitized version. The time you got it wrong, the decision that cost the team, the thing you'd do differently. That's what actually teaches.
  • Open doors. Introduce them to the people and rooms they wouldn't have access to on their own. Your network is the most underused asset you can share.
  • Be honest about their gaps. Telling someone they're great when they're not isn't mentoring. It's avoidance.
  • Let them outgrow you. That's the whole point.

The Difference Between Coaching and Mentoring

Coaching is about the current problem. Mentoring is about the next five years. Coaching asks "what's the right move here?" Mentoring asks "who are you trying to become?"

Both matter. They're not the same thing.

The Legacy Test

You will not be remembered for your title, your projects, or your throughput. You'll be remembered for the people you made better.

Build people who build people. That's the only multiplier that compounds after you're gone.

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